
I have been attending the 2009 Leadership Summit this week. The conference is put on at Willow Creek Church in Chicago, and has had some great information regarding leadership.
Session 5 was by a man named Dave Gibbons, founding Pastor of New Song Church in Irvine, California. Dave brought to the table a challenge to be "Third culture" leaders. He defines "Third Culture," as "the mindset and will to learn, love, and serve in any culture, even in the midst of pain and discomfort."
His thought is that God lays out our call pretty simply when he says, "Love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength; and love your neighbor as yourself,"(Matt. 22:37-40). Upon these two commands we as leaders have defined them and strategized around them, but Gibbons says we often miss the point of the second command. We have a problem seeing who our neighbor truly is. There is a tendency to define our neighbors as those common to us, or those we easily connect with. "Third Culture" sees neighbors as those that persecute us, those that we can't stand to be around, those that we would never want to hang out with...and third culture leaders love those people as theirselves, even in the most persecuting times.
Dave challenges that we as leaders need to step back and change our motives of leadership. His main points were,
1. Failure is success...(people can identify with our failures rather than our success)
2. Weakness can guide us more than our strengths
3. Relationship trumps vision
4. Obedience more than passion
Jesus was all about relationships and poured far more into them than he did vision. And Jesus made relationships with those that people didn't like...tax collectors, theives, persecuter... And Jesus was certainly passionate about God, but allowed obedience to govern his life. While passionate about His father, Jesus didn't want to die, but through obedience he died, and not only for all those that loved him, but for even those that were nailing Him to the cross!
Now, we've probably all heard, "love your enemies," a hundred times, but the principle is something that we probably miss a lot. We are all drawn to a certain type of people. I would be drawn to musicians and people who like sports and people who are constantly active, and I probably miss a lot of opportuities to jump out and love someone that doesn't fall into those categories. A third-culture leader, makes it a priority to go after those that they are not drawn to, including enemies. Certainly this is hard, but Christ did it and we are called to live as Christ!
Applying this to a worship leader/worship pastor, I want to make it a priority to gravitate towards those that wouldn't likely draw me in. That is what Christ did, and he was able to make world changers, and passionate followers of God! This has challenged me and I hope it challenges you to take a good look at who your neighbors truly are, and strive to love them as you love yourself. This is fulfilling the call of worship that God has called us to.
"Fulfill the great commission, in the midst of the great commandment."